Was contacted by "Cantmakeitalone" on Singleparentmeet.com. Of course, he seemed nice and caring-English was not his first language, French was. Posted and additionally emailed pictures are of a very attractive Caucasian, who he claimed lost his wife and child, Tracey, in one fell swoop, to a drunk driver. We started texting, calling, a love letter came, he wrote [bad] poetry, and loved to sing me country music songs and songs in French. I was utterly charmed-we "fell in love," he was to visit me over Valentines Day, actually did have a hotel reservation, but alas, he never called after several days prior to his arrival. By then, I had wired $1100 to a "tile guy" by the name of John Carlson in Phillie-because Ray was in a hospital in Canada tending to his mother, and the gut was working on one of his renovations and needed money for parts, or to pay the guys, or whatever. I did my own research and hired a cheap but effective PI firm-they think he's Nigerian and stole the photos from somewhere. I am out the money and got my heart broken, too. Went by the name of Ray D. Holmez, daughter Tracey, runs "Realtex Professionals" and his data suggests he also uses the names Jay Anderson, Gregory Jackson and God knows who else.