Beware of the Black Widow Stripper of Atlanta! Jamie Suggs aka Jamie Messer.
First let me state that I am a single man that was divorced in March of 2009 and never started spending time on the "outside" with this woman until after my divorce was final. I was already in the process of my divorce when I met her. I was a perfect target.
I had a two year relationship and 8 months of "dating" a devious and evil woman who goes by “Jamie Lynn Suggs” and is her true married name, though hard to prove there is even a marital status. She also has an alias and fake IDs for “Jamie Lynn Messer” and her maiden name is “Sheppard”. GA DL lists her living in Martinez, GA on Brooks Drive in a house she “owns and rents out”. Strange from such a poor woman right? There is a “Christopher W. Messer” that is associated with her fake alias that is still unknown but believes it to be a made up man as she has a relative by the name of “Christopher Wessinger” as is her mother’s maiden name and family in SC. That explains the W middle initial. Some know her as a nickname "James" and is also the name of her twin brother who is in prison in SC for theft till mid 2011. (true) This woman is not who she appears to be at all! Academy award winning actress and so is her husband (Joe) who I have spoken with and emailed as he tried to trick me too.
Jamie is currently a stripper at a well known strip club in Doraville, Georgia just off of Tilly Mill Road and has been there for 4 years. They are mostly good people there running the place and have been nice to me and sympathetic and supportive (shocked too) and I do not want to bring them into this. She worked at another club in Atlanta off of Powers Ferry and 285 before that. She is 29 as of March 6, 2011. She appears so innocent and sweet and seems out of place and "struggling to make a buck".
Jamie runs a well documented and well planned-out con business with her much older (18yrs+) husband (Joe) out of Orlando FL and travels here weekly claiming to live in SC with her poor mother and sister and uncle. Complete with notes and a book if how to handle “customers”. She and her husband live in a $500k home in a gated community in Orlando FL and they co-own a nationwide family moving and house cleaning business. But the con is how they make their big money for their lavish lifestyle. She usually drives to Atlanta but many times flies and gets a rental car. She also claims to stay with her "aunt" in Acworth with her poor cousin (Neil) with AIDs. She actually stays in local hotels when not "sleeping over" at her new customer's homes as she draws them into her web of deceit and lies for sex and money. The club is a "front" to make some money but mainly to seek out middle aged men like myself with money that she can tell her fraudulent sad story and get you outside of the club to start meeting and giving her even more money and things. So subtle as she never asks for extra but almost like a spell with her good looks and sex appeal and sympathy for her hard life that ironically is mostly true up until she met her partner con man husband. That is all she has going for her as she could have easily been a Victoria Secret model with the right man or people supporting her and made even more money. Just look at the pictures! She does not talk much too other dancers or staff and keeps very private to not give away her secrets. She has visions of superiority and grandeur as she claims that other dancers copy her style and look and constantly tells you how hot she looks in something she is wearing.
Look up “Jamie L. Messer” on places like Intellus.com and you will see all the places she and her husband have lived. Again, her real and legal name is truly Jamie Lynn Suggs and she has done an excellent job of hiding that online and under the radar. She even recently changed her area code on her mobile phone from a 941 (Punta Gorda, FL) to 803 (Aiken, SC) to be more convincing to new customers after losing me when I discovered her con and ran out of money. Listed places are Beech Island SC, Aiken, SC Blythe GA, Norcross, GA, Martinez, GA, Punta Gorda FL, Augusta, GA and now in Orlando FL.
Her story is that she comes from a very poor large family in SC which is true and her mother and family live in suburbs of Aiken, SC which is also true but that is where the truth ends.
She will tell you she is divorced and her husband (Joe) is locked away in federal prison for years and years (running a pot house) as she was left alone and pregnant and had to move up to SC in mid 2008 and abandon the house and all the things in it. Eating tuna fish out of the can. So sad! She forgave him but so angry she got divorced immediately and wanted to “chop his head off”. Details of going to the prison with her kids to visit him and how she hates doing it but for her kids to see Dad. So many scripted details of so many things that must have been thought out and written down.
She claims to be too prideful for bankruptcy and she has been paying off all of his old man debt by dancing. Later there we claims of a loan shark named (Tony T) pressuring her for sex and for payback as her debt was still enormous at a claimed $119k. Even after all I had done. Fishy to me at time. All false and I have all the proof need as I had hired a PI and planned a fraud lawsuit but decided it was too much negative energy as I am moving on with my life and dating real women now. This post will be my legacy for the world to see forever.
I am her third victim in 5 years and she is currently working on a fourth that a stripper warned him about her just last week and praying her believes her. All the dancers and staff in that club know her game now as they let me tell it and they believe me as I had photos and text messages from her to prove it. Everyone was in shock about her but now knows the truth and again is my legacy for my outsmarting her. Just two years too late! There was a man (Jeff) for two years before me and a 70yo man (Art) before that that sent care packages to her "brother Joe" in FL and even co signed on her car (2004 Black Acura TL with a FL plate) she drives now!
Over a year and a half after my divorce I had only met her cousin briefly who also used to be a stripper and now a successful Hollywood actress. I showed her respect for her privacy by not hiring a PI then and not digging online. I respected that her family was not ready for the idea of her being with another man with the pain of Joe being in prison. But after 6yrs of being in prison? That was sounding fishy but she told me they were rooting for him and they hoped they would get back together.
Fast forward to August of 2010 as I told her I was breaking up as this was so unhealthy as this was like a "friendship for money" and I had to pursue a real relationship as it was making me very unhappy, unstable, and still alone as I only saw her a couple days a week and always for money as I "covered her work" as if she was still in the club. I said something had to change now or else we were done. We had not been in the club for most of 2010 as I helped her financially as I could. $6k+ most weeks! No joke!
Take a look sometime at her nice “new smile”. I felt so sorry for her yellow crooked teeth and old bridge that kept falling out. So I paid $7k in late 2009 for full veneers and whitening on her front teeth and a new bridge for her missing tooth. $1100 for her older daughter’s ear problems and $5K in early 2010 for a blown transmission that I now doubt cost that much with a lifetime mileage warranty but that model and year did have serious problems! Never for anything in return for the woman I loved and planned to spend the rest of my life with. So many more little things like clothes for her kids, glasses so she could see better while driving, and nice sunglasses. She had such a hard life that I was making so much better! What a sucker I was!
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Beware of the Black Widow Stripper of Atlanta! Jamie Suggs aka Jamie Messer.