Jamie Suggs

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After I told her this she told me I “hit the nail on the head”. She said she thought about it and that week (planned it out with her husband in reality) then ramped up the kissing and affection and told me for the first time that she was in love with me and her "ex husband" was dead to her in her heart, and promised to tell her family about me. Just what a man in love needed to hear right? She had me hook line and sinker. The romance began full force!

Fast forward December 2010. She started showing up on Thursdays in rental cars saying it was arranged by her uncle Earl in SC. She claims that she and her two girls (true two girls) used to live with arranged it so less wear and tear on her car. They live in Florence, SC so that was an extra hour drive and she NEVER lived there at all! Truth was she was flying into the ATL airport from Orlando and getting a rental car and staying in a hotel in Norcross! Just like a business trip and I was her best customer ever! Set pay, no dancing in the club, no sex since she was “not ready yet”, and no guilt about what she was doing to me!

My friends and brother worried for me and my brother started checking and could not find her husband in the federal prison database. I called her on it and she claimed he was "released" in November of 2010 and did not want to tell me as it would upset me. This sent me into a doubting downhill spiral and became suicidal and thank god for my kids and family and friends to encourage me. She could only blame me and that I was scaring her with my depression instead of being loving and encouraging.

In January 2011 I was broke and shut down my company and filing for bankruptcy. She continued to call me twice a day every day to tell me she loved me and cared the entire month that still does not make sense unless she somehow really fell for me as she later claimed. A smoother exit for her perhaps?

She was always acted insanely jealous thinking I was going on dates or seeing other dancers (not true) so in Feb of 2011 I finally started digging and found her husband's company and home address and made some calls and quickly put two and two together that she was still married all this time and lying. Even told me she was cleaning houses in SC so she would not have to dance as I struggled financially. Part of her husband's company was cleaning houses and moving! I called her on that and shockingly admitted it and said she was "divorced in her heart" and still wanted me, but my depression has them “talking again”. She was working on an exit strategy. That was more than I could take and now believed that her and Joe were running a full on con out of their expensive house in FL. I again became suicidal and sent a final text to her and to her husband's company email. I got a text from her that I still have that tells me “I did not totally deceive you….yes I was married but what we had was real”.

I got a call the next day from her husband asking who I was and why I had pics of her and their kids. He dated her at 16, married her at 17 and he was 33. Make your own judgment on that but it's a no brainer for most normal people to know how abnormal that was. He was stern and nice and claimed that they have been separate for 2.5yrs and I helped as he "flew up" and met with her and she told him everything. Even about the loan shark (Tony T) pressuring her for the $119K she still owes. All lies and just crazy! Also he admitted that he has NOT been in prison since 2003 for a very brief time and was there for the birth of BOTH kids! All lies from her! He likes to use the term a lot “I’m a businessman”. That seems to be some kind of “self importance reinforcement” technique.

I looked through pics of us again and her kids and one has her wedding ring on (trying to hide it) and the other from Oct 2010 that is clearly in the backyard in FL of their $500k house! They are both in on it! I found her mom on face book as I had totally renovated her trailer in SC completely and even bought her a good used car (I drove to FL ironically to get it an back) to keep a sister's kids from being taken away by the state. (Actually true) I loved her for her and cared about her family. I am flawed for sure but also gullible and a good man. Her mom listed that Jamie and her brother lived in FL and pics from 2007 that clearly showed her husband.

I ended this very quickly and devastated as she all along told me she was “drawn to me”, I was “different” than most, “attracted to me” and wanted something more after she was done dancing and then later that she “loved me and wanted to be with me”. All along going home to her co-con husband in FL each week from me sleeping in their bed while I lay alone waiting for that day to come to be together in my bed. She has met my children and relatives in NJ as we had a Christmas trip to NYC in 2010. See NYC pics from December 2010.

This grew from a friendship to best friendship to romance. It was so real. No over active emotions. It seemed real. I gave my all. My heart, my time, and yes my money that in the end was well over $300k and contributed to my demise with my company and personally. All the while never an apology or sympathy for me. She appears to be a textbook sociopath but I am not a shrink. She is a pro at what she does. Using her looks and sex appeal and sweetness to lure in men with promises for a future that will NEVER happen people!

Please beware of this woman and steer clear unless you know she is a stripper and manipulator and that is all she will ever be and enjoy her beauty and pay for that but don't let her steal your heart and you live as she did to me and two others before me! DO NOT MEET HER OUTSIDE OF THE CLUB UNLESS YOU UNDERSTAND AND WANT TO GET SOME SEX BY USING YOUR MONEY. That is all it will ever be!

Jamie Suggs/Messer/Sheppard is the Black Widow Stripper of Atlanta!

You have been warned as I know more than any of her other cons since I was with her the longest, she allowed herself to get way too close to me, talked too much to me, and in the end I used that info with my PI to blow the lid off of this scam! Any book or movie deals please contact me here! LOL!

I am now dating normal non stripper woman (never did before and never will again) and have moved on with my life and thank God I have hope for the future. I pray Jamie one day sees the light and stops this madness before someone does kill himself over her or a bad customer she hooks up with hurts her Somehow! I wish her no harm. Only justice and that will come in due time without my help.

I hope this has helped you to see the light and run away fast!

Cheers!