OASIS DANCER NOT A SCAM ORDEAL!!!!

There is always THREE sides to a story...

Atlanta, Georgia, 30360

Her side,that CUSTOMERS side,and then MY SIDE! The reason I say my side is because I am employeed there at the Oasis and have been since late 2005.I am not one of the dancers nor do I take off my clothes. I work in other fields within the establishment. I met Jamie Suggs for the first time back in 2007 when she first starting working here.I work 5 days sometimes 6 days out of the week in 8-10 hr shifts.So if ANYTHING is going on in that club I usually always have the scivvy on it. All dancers that work here rely on regular/repeat customers. Thats how they generate their incomes here at this establishment.The more regular/repeat customers that a dancer has then,generally speaking,the more money that she will be able to generate not only for herself but for the establishment as well.At the end of every work shift the girls must tip out a predetermined set percentage of what her total take in was to the club.So you see,it is NORMAL procedure for the dancers to get to know the customer and to build a repore with them and to also ENCOURAGE the customer to return to see them again. Thats how this business operates and has for eons! Now lets get to Jamie and this CUSTOMER of hers or was hers,that has been posting these SLANDEROUS statements against her.Back in late 2008 I noticed this CUSTOMER here at the Oasis sitting by himself & just watching the dancers.I had never seen this customer before and since he was sitting by himself I figure he was just another "Out of towner" due to most all customers never come in without a group unless they were a regular/repeat customer. So this particular customer stuck out to me as he was there by himself,not talking with anyone nor receiving any dances from any of the girls. Just struck as one to keep an eye on.Then over the next week or so I noticed this same customer coming in by himself a couple times more over the next week and I remember thinking it was odd because I never saw him get any dances from the girls.He would just sit there shortly,maybe order a beer,watch the dancers from afar then would leave.Then like a week after that I notice Jamie(One of Premier featured dancers ) sitting & talking w/him.This rapidly turned into him coming into see Jamie 3 maybe 4 days out of the week,EVERY WEEK CONSITENTLY FOR THE NEXT WELL OVER A YEAR to see Jamie.And I'm not talking for just an hour or so at a time,I'm talking 3 or 4 days out of EVERY SINGLE WEEK for her WHOLE ENTIRE SHIFT!!! That's like a 8-10 shift he stayed there every day to see her.Like I said this took place 3 maybe 4 times EACH WEEK! A lot of times he would take her to the VIP room for hrs ($$$VERY EXPENSIVE$$$) at a time.With the money she was tipping out at the end of her shift whenever he was there it was easy to see that he was spending AT LEAST $1,000-$3,000 on her EVERY SINGLE TIME THAT HE CAME IN TO SEE HER.Now if you multiply that by 3 or 4 times a week for OVER A WHOLE YEAR STRAIGHT! you immediately begin to understand the amount of money this CUSTOMER was throwing at her.From this,one could easliy assume that either this customer was EXTREMELY wealthy or was an extremely bad manager of his finances and was probably on a downward spiral in his life.I have seen this occur before with men in these types of establishments over my years in the Adult Entertainment Industry.Well,after about nine (9) months of this,of him coming into the club 3 maybe 4 days out of every week as a regular/repeat customer of Jamie's,I became alarmed one day when Jamie had come in to work earlier than she normally did & was performing a dance for one of the other patrons when that regular/repeat customer of hers walks in & notices Jamie dancing for that other customer.Immediately his whole demeanor changed,He went from green happy go lucky to RED AGITATED EXTREMELY UPSET mode.He then went to a secluded table & sat there w/out Jamie even knowing he was in the building and just sat there and INTENTLY watched Jamie perform that dance for that other customer.it is one of my many positions here to notice these things & to keep an experienced eye out for possible trouble which can sometimes spring up in these types of circumstances.I VIVIDLY remember as I was watching his facial expressions as he was intently watching Jamie do that dance for the other customer that he seemed really strange to me and that I had better warn Jamie & let her know about his Dark demeanor that I had just witnessed.CONTINUED.....

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JamieSuggs1982

Submitted: 03/23/2011

Just weird as Jamie never was in that club without me there during this time as that was our arrangement. There were times I came in later toward the end and waited for her to finish. We had a great friendship and more and sad that I am being painted as some kind of stakler strip club scumbag. I am still welcome in that club and friendly to everyone. I only came into that club once a year before meeting Jamie and is the custom that people that are not regulars do not get much attention. I was in the middle of a divorce when I met her and I was free and why I was in there more often. I was happy to help her and we talked most of our time togehter and rarely danced and spent a few VIPs each time. It was like a nice friendship that grew but again it was all fake and she has done this to two other men. All I ever wanted in return was for her to have a better life and to win her heart one day but not from showering her with money but for her to see my heart. She claimed that is what happened.

Again, she is married and living in FL with her husband of 11yrs and two children. She lied about that to me an two previous customers.

I never used my money for sex an showed her love and respect.

In the end she was just a lying stripper and con artist and is very sad....

Jamie was thrilled that she did not have to dance as I took care of her. She could have gone with any of those customers at any time she chose but she CHOSE to be with me and the promise of a future together over time. She did behave in the club and that is not what is being discussed here. It is her behavior outside the club that is being discussed. I am the one that ended our relationship when I discovered she was still married and her husband was NEVER in prison. A con and a scam for my money. She was free to be with anyone she wanted and chose to be with me. I thought I was helping someone to have a better life. She was thrilled that we never had to be in that club ever again and that was our goal and from May to December of 2010 we were not in there together once as we spent every week together. There were two men before me that have similar stories and they have pics of Jamie in their homes and not to flattering. These are the fact. We were friend then good friends then we fell in love but it was fake on her end. I have the texts that she loves me and voicemails. Again...look at the picas people and don't believe this attempt at damage control by Jamie and her husband. I am now tempted to post more pics and a new post. ITS ALL TRUE! She does well as a classy and good girl in that club for sure though she did let me touch her very early on but only once or twice. It is the lies and promise of a future and her secret life. You can call her husband and go to their house and look online. Look at the pictures and I have 50 more pics and voicemails and texts. I can keep replying all day long. Notice how fast these responses are coming up from the original posts. The truth is the truth. Get what you want from her at the club but don't believe her story or these attempts to make me some kind of infatuated customer. We were best friends that spent every moment together possible. It was real for me but for her I was a dream customer to play with and happily take my money. We met outside the club starting in March 2009 and started at one day a week and became more over time. I did as she offered and was comfortable. We NEVER had sex and she met my daughter twice and my son once and the NYC Trip was her idea! We were friends and companions and in love that was fake from her. Never used her but treated her with respect and class up to the end. All the facts over her lies are true. Do not overlook the facts! I only wanted her to have a better life and she told me she wanted it with me! Case Closed Again....I can and will respond to every fake post so keep them coming!

JamieSuggs1982

Submitted: 03/23/2011

Always anonymous! Major damage control attempt!

Something to think about when reading these responses. Why would an employee of the club spend so much time and put so much energy to defend this woman? Jamie never made friends with anyone there on purpose and ALL will tell you she is a mystery woman.

Most important is how can this person know my timelines of when she first saw me there and when we were not there with ALL of the other customers in there every day? Also how much money I was giving her as the amounts she mentioned are correct but Jamie's "rates" were her own rates and not based on anything someone told her to ask for.

It's clear that this is her attempt to deflect the clear scam and con.

Also notice that none of these posts listed her last name or name in the title? On purpose to keep the google hits down.

Always NOT A SCAM. Just like the fake dentist post.

What is a Sweetheart SCAM? Telling someone that you want more with me when done dancing, that she loves me and her "ex husband" is dead to her in her heart and wants to be with me? That her ex husband is in prison and she is divorced? Wants me to meet her family? She can see herself with me forever? All the while taking my money knowing she will NEVER be with me since she is married and living in FL with her husband and kids and playing with my heart and emotions and my life? THAT IS A SCAM! NO QUESTION AND NONE OF THESE POSTS SEEM TO ADDRESS THAT! CASE CLOSED AGAIN. Damage control has failed again and I can do this all day and night forever and keep replying!

Keep the drama alive and more and more people will know and will clearly see the truth. Again, the story is compelling, people at the club know me and beleive and trust me, and the photos do not lie! The truth it out there!!!!!

JamieSuggs1982

Submitted: 03/23/2011

By the way.....Jamie never came in early to see other customers after July of 2009. We scheduled when we would see each other and I never came in early unless we would spend the entire day together as I came in early to get our spot.

The story about me watching her and getting upset is a complete fabrication to paint me as a stripclub scumbag stalker! Anyone else in that club knows me enought to laugh at such a story.

The opposite was true that Jamie would get crazy mad and jealous if I looked at another dancer, stared, talked to one, and sometimes suspected I was coming in early to see another dancer. Also thinking I was going on dates when she was out of town. Controlling and just too much to take and is why I finally gave up and started digging and found out the truth!

There was one time I came in late May of 2010 (long after the claim) as I was not able to be with her the entire day and I got upset as she was supposed be meet me at a certain time and she was in a VIP room and ended up being 45 minutes late. I made a scene a little bit and apologized to the two people that I was rude to that day. That is who I am.

I will be glad when I not longer want to go into that place again. Some couples have their park bench or favorite place they used to go to to remember? All I have is that damn club!

Sad but true. Again, it's all real and I was scammed!

Something to think about when reading these responses. Why would an employee of the club spend so much time and put so much energy to defend this woman? Jamie never made friends with anyone there on purpose and ALL will tell you she is a mystery woman.

Most important is how can this person know my timelines of when she first saw me there and when we were not there with ALL of the other customers in there every day? Also how much money I was giving her as the amounts she mentioned are correct but Jamie's "rates" were her own rates and not based on anything someone told her to ask for.

It's clear that this is her attempt to deflect the clear scam and con.

Also notice that none of these posts listed her last name or name in the title? On purpose to keep the google hits down.

Always NOT A SCAM. Just like the fake dentist post.

What is a Sweetheart SCAM? Telling someone that you want more with me when done dancing, that she loves me and her "ex husband" is dead to her in her heart and wants to be with me? That her ex husband is in prison and she is divorced? Wants me to meet her family? She can see herself with me forever? All the while taking my money knowing she will NEVER be with me since she is married and living in FL with her husband and kids and playing with my heart and emotions and my life? THAT IS A SCAM! NO QUESTION AND NONE OF THESE POSTS SEEM TO ADDRESS THAT! CASE CLOSED AGAIN. Damage control has failed again and I can do this all day and night forever and keep replying!

Keep the drama alive and more and more people will know and will clearly see the truth. Again, the story is compelling, people at the club know me and beleive and trust me, and the photos do not lie! The truth it out there!!!!!

JamieSuggs1982

Submitted: 03/23/2011

Oh yeah...this person has worked there for years and never seen me before? Just happens to notice me "looking at the dancers being all alone" in late 2008 for the first time? I have been going into that club once or twice a year for 16 years!

Never had more than a 1hr VIP at a time with her all that time a couple times each day. Never!

Saying that I am looking at the naked dancers by myself as if there is something wrong with doing that in there? Isn't that the point? LOL!

Sorry...this spin control is just too easy to knock out of the park and so laughable! Better luck next time.

Everyone in there knows me fairly well and just about everyone is very very nice to me! Especially considering they ALL know the truth and have seen the text messages and pics!
That is the truth!

C'mon! Seriously! If you are really an employee of the club and you have been willing to take 3-4 hours of your time on a Tuesday evening to defend a person you barely know with such passion (see the posting times for all of these messages to the left of each one) and paint me a typical problem club scumbag when everyone there for the most part knows of my goodness, honesty, and kindness, then call me or meet with me and talk with me and let me show you the messages and photos and voicemails and receipts and talk to me face to face and I will honestly answer any question you have and you can even record it. How is that for honesty? How about a lie detector test? I'm willing! I'm ready. I'm honest!!!!! I have the truth!

JamieSuggs1982

Submitted: 03/23/2011

Hanging out in my condo, jogging, going to many movies, and eating a Taco Bell is not exactly showing her off as a trophy of any kind. Never saw her that way. Never even saw her as a stripper but a sweet flawed woman, a friend, and lover and someone I wanted to spend the rest of my days with as she told me she wanted the same and loved me after August of 2010.

JamieSuggs1982

Submitted: 03/23/2011

Oh...I did not read this first post carefully enough. Too many posts but need to mention that before December 11, 2008, the night I met Jamie, I had NOT been in that club for many many months! I only came in there a couple times a year as I have said before. So the stories of me coming there days before and I was "one to keep an eye on" is the stupidest thing I have ever read. I was not known at all then since I rarely came in and was always a polite and normal looking person, though back then I weighed 300 pounds and was not hard to forget!

Just a sad attempt at painting herself as the victim and myself as some kind of bad guy here when I was the victim of a classic sweetheart scam with a stripper spin.

Even telling customers that I was stalking her when the facts were I hired a PI and had filed a fraud lawsuit.

I was in the club this very evening and had a nice time for a couple of hours as you do not have to spend much money to have a couple of drinks and dances.

Jamie also painted her former customer (Jeff) as a creepy stalker that she feared and took cabs to the club. All a sympathy play as she now does for her new target.

BTW...she can cry at the drop of a hat and make you feel sorry for her.

JamieSuggs1982

Submitted: 03/27/2011

Want to know even more truth? Read the sequel to this story. I had no choice to counter the damage control and spin against me that tries to distract from the clear truth and point of my story of what this couple did to me and continue to do to other men in Atlanta, GA. I have an email from Jamie's husband Joe apologizing to me for what Jamie did to me and will post that next should the spin continue. Obviously he was lying to me too but his email is very telling and damming as I list out what she did to me, he said he got ALL the truth from her after confronting and "flying up there" wherever "there" is since they live together! He said he had "NO idea" about me and who I was, and told me he was sorry for what she put me through!

See links below.....

http://www.whoscammedyou.com/scams/2445
http://www.whoscammedyou.com/scams/2446

JamieSuggs1982

Submitted: 04/06/2011

This will truly be my final entry and an update to make sure there is no confusion on this matter and MY EFFORT TO REMOVE THESE POSTS. I made the effort and failed and read below with the response from the people running the site and anyone wanting them removed must deal with them directly as I am done and did as I was asked to. Here is how this came about and read the response from the people at WHOSCAMMED YOU at the bottom.

To try to suppress this information, the subject of these posts had a temp 12 month restraining order served against me as was the practice with the previous man before myself to keep me from telling others the truth. The order only mentioned that I had given this information out to her family and people at the strip club where she worked and that I had threatened to do myself in and NEVER harm anyone else. All things I clearly posted here as the truth. No talk of any threats against her or anyone else as that was never the point or intent. Only justice and a legacy and being outed and being able to tell my story was the point and to save the next stupid man that believes her.

I went to court on Monday April 4, 2011 to be a respondent and was able to tell my side of the story to a large public crowd. I was very surprised that the subject of these posts also showed up on a Monday all the way from Orlando to tell her side. The story she told was amazing of only wanting friendship and getting sexual pressure from me and dominating all her time in the club. After two years? Seriously? Wording Just like the fake posts on here. You all read the truth and see the pictures and the cards from her to know better. Even using a false address in GA on the paperwork that I pointed out to the judge and even showed the address and name of the person that lived there! She did tell the judge how I did so much good for her family and how she made the mistake of letting herself get too close to me. Very true as I said the same on these posts and was nice to hear some positive and some truth from her.

I was very nervous as I did not expect to have to get into so much detail but clearly able to prove my side with text messages of “loving me” and that “what we had was real” and the email from her husband apologizing to me for what she did to me. The judge agreed that there was "some kind of relationship" here and was part of the document in how the order was handed out. The truth was heard but unfortunately in the end the judge decided in her favor and mainly because of these posts as that and one text message was her only evidence. The posts were “affecting her livelihood” as an “adult entertainer” as the subject of these posts told the judge. That’s all fine as I made it clear that I had moved on and hoped to never see or hear from her again. It was not pleasant at all to have to be in the same room with her or even stand next to her as I listened and then told my side. I made it a point to not even give her the courtesy of looking at her at all the entire time.

Even though there was NO MENTION in the actual order to remove these posts I was asked by an aid upon leaving to make my "best effort" to have them ALL removed. I did not like the idea of these posts going away but out of respect for the court I made an effort and was unsuccessful.

Here is the reply from the people who run this site and let it be noted that I IMMEDIATELY MADE THE EFFORT asked of me and was denied and here is the reply. I am done with all this “Jerry Springer Drama” and let the chips fall where it may about the nature of our relationship over two years as the truth is all here and as the bible verse says. You will reap what you sow. These posts will be part of the reaping of what was sown against me and two other men before me the past 2 years with me and 3 years with them and hope these posts save some poor soul in the future what we all went through.

Cheers and see below......
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Info to me
April 4, 2011 8:56 PM
It is our company policy to not remove any posts from our website. Our site is merely a forum where people can post their alleged scams and the people who are the subject of those posts can tell their side of the story in order to set the record straight.
WSY is neither in the business nor has the capacity to take sides regarding who WSY believes is correct.
Sincerely,
WSY
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