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  • Posted By: Anonymous
  • Submitted: 03/23/2011
  • Severity: 10

Oasis dancer NOT SCAM ARTIST!!!

There is always three sides to a story...

atlanta, Georgia

CONTINUED FROM PART 1... I pulled to the side & informed her,then asked her to be careful with him due to I have been in this industry for almost 26 years & I had NEVER SEEN SOMEONE COME IN THAT CONSISTENTLY & DROP THAT MUCH TIME/MONEY unless something else was involved,whether it be sex,drugs,relationship outside of the club or something connecting along those lines.She informed me that NOTHING of the such was going on,that she ONLY saw him when he came into the club as her repeat customer.Now after reading his posted comments I see she was being honest because he stated the same.She claimed that he was just a really good regular that she really likes and he was really just a "BIg ol Teddy Bear".Thats how she referred to him.I listened & went on & warned her anyhow to just be careful.Well this continued for about a year to two years.From late 2008 up until the beginning to around the middle of 2010.Then we noticed that Jamie was hardly ever here,matter of fact now that I think about it she wasn't here for much,if any,in 2010.So from what I been able to gather from this is the point in time where they began seeing each other outside of the club I suppose because she wasn't here.After reading this customers BLACK WIDOW POST,I've been able to put it all together myself.Like I said before ,I have been in this industry for well over TWO DECADES now & have seen MANY different scenerios unfold within this arena.I know the tools of the trade,so to speak.I know the tools the women use in order to get & maintain their regular/repeat customers(REMEMBER THIS IS A PLACE OF BUSINESS).However,I also know the tools that the customer uses,especially PREDATORY CUSTOMERS.This is an area in which I specialize in due to the safety of our girls that are employeed here under our canopy of employment.PREDATORY CUSTOMERS are HIGHLY MANIPULATIVE & are the best at hiding their true intentions whether it be to try & manipulate the girl into performing a sexual acts for him or manipulating her into allowing him to see her outside of the club so that he can show her off to his freinds/family as his shining trophy.You first have to understand that the reason why these PREDATORY CUSTOMERS even come into the strip clubs and seriously set their sight on girls in here.Its because out in real society they would never be able to have a women of that caliber.Basically they want what they haven't been able to get thus far which is a YOUNG BEAUTIFUL TROPHY GIRL.In their mind the club is their fast way to buy that trophy girl because they know that most young girls that work in the strip clubs come from proverty stricken backgrounds & are trying to build a better financial plateu in which to live on.Most of the girls put themselves through college this way.Most,if not ALL PREDATORY customers with money view the the strip clubs as third world countries full of young beautiful girls just ripe and ready for the picking and the tool they use is their MONEY!!!!! to attempt to sweep the girl off feet and pretty much,basically BUY HER.CONTINUED.....


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Jamie was thrilled that she did not have to dance as I took care of her. She could have gone with any of those customers at any time she chose but she CHOSE to be with me and the promise of a future together over time. She did behave in the club and that is not what is being discussed here. It is her behavior outside the club that is being discussed. I am the one that ended our relationship when I discovered she was still married and her husband was NEVER in prison. A con and a scam for my money. She was free to be with anyone she wanted and chose to be with me. I thought I was helping someone to have a better life. She was thrilled that we never had to be in that club ever again and that was our goal and from May to December of 2010 we were not in there together once as we spent every week together. There were two men before me that have similar stories and they have pics of Jamie in their homes and not to flattering. These are the fact. We were friend then good friends then we fell in love but it was fake on her end. I have the texts that she loves me and voicemails. Again...look at the picas people and don't believe this attempt at damage control by Jamie and her husband. I am now tempted to post more pics and a new post. ITS ALL TRUE! She does well as a classy and good girl in that club for sure though she did let me touch her very early on but only once or twice. It is the lies and promise of a future and her secret life. You can call her husband and go to their house and look online. Look at the pictures and I have 50 more pics and voicemails and texts. I can keep replying all day long. Notice how fast these responses are coming up from the original posts. The truth is the truth. Get what you want from her at the club but don't believe her story or these attempts to make me some kind of infatuated customer. We were best friends that spent every moment together possible. It was real for me but for her I was a dream customer to play with and happily take my money. We met outside the club starting in March 2009 and started at one day a week and became more over time. I did as she offered and was comfortable. We NEVER had sex and she met my daughter twice and my son once and the NYC Trip was her idea! We were friends and companions and in love that was fake from her. Never used her but treated her with respect and class up to the end. All the facts over her lies are true. Do not overlook the facts! I only wanted her to have a better life and she told me she wanted it with me! Case Closed Again....I can and will respond to every fake post so keep them coming!
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Something to think about when reading these responses. Why would an employee of the club spend so much time and put so much energy to defend this woman? Jamie never made friends with anyone there on purpose and ALL will tell you she is a mystery woman.

Most important is how can this person know my timelines of when she first saw me there and when we were not there with ALL of the other customers in there every day? Also how much money I was giving her as the amounts she mentioned are correct but Jamie's "rates" were her own rates and not based on anything someone told her to ask for.

It's clear that this is her attempt to deflect the clear scam and con.

Also notice that none of these posts listed her last name or name in the title? On purpose to keep the google hits down.

Always NOT A SCAM. Just like the fake dentist post.

What is a Sweetheart SCAM? Telling someone that you want more with me when done dancing, that she loves me and her "ex husband" is dead to her in her heart and wants to be with me? That her ex husband is in prison and she is divorced? Wants me to meet her family? She can see herself with me forever? All the while taking my money knowing she will NEVER be with me since she is married and living in FL with her husband and kids and playing with my heart and emotions and my life? THAT IS A SCAM! NO QUESTION AND NONE OF THESE POSTS SEEM TO ADDRESS THAT! CASE CLOSED AGAIN. Damage control has failed again and I can do this all day and night forever and keep replying!

Keep the drama alive and more and more people will know and will clearly see the truth. Again, the story is compelling, people at the club know me and beleive and trust me, and the photos do not lie! The truth it out there!!!!!

Who Scammed You Commenter
Sorry...this spin control is just too easy to knock out of the park and so laughable! Better luck next time.

Everyone in there knows me fairly well and just about everyone is very very nice to me! Especially considering they ALL know the truth and have seen the text messages and pics!

That is the truth!

C'mon! Seriously! If you are really an employee of the club and you have been willing to take 3-4 hours of your time on a Tuesday evening to defend a person you barely know with such passion (see the posting times for all of these messages to the left of each one) and paint me a typical problem club scumbag when everyone there for the most part knows of my goodness, honesty, and kindness, then call me or meet with me and talk with me and let me show you the messages and photos and voicemails and receipts and talk to me face to face and I will honestly answer any question you have and you can even record it. How is that for honesty? How about a lie detector test? I'm willing! I'm ready. I'm honest!!!!! I have the truth!

Who Scammed You Commenter
Hanging out in my condo, jogging, going to many movies, and eating a Taco Bell is not exactly showing her off as a trophy of any kind. Never saw her that way. Never even saw her as a stripper but a sweet flawed woman, a friend, and lover and someone I wanted to spend the rest of my days with as she told me she wanted the same and loved me after August of 2010.
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Want to know even more truth? Read the sequel to this story. I had no choice to counter the damage control and spin against me that tries to distract from the clear truth and point of my story of what this couple did to me and continue to do to other men in Atlanta, GA. I have an email from Jamie's husband Joe apologizing to me for what Jamie did to me and will post that next should the spin continue. Obviously he was lying to me too but his email is very telling and damming as I list out what she did to me, he said he got ALL the truth from her after confronting and "flying up there" wherever "there" is since they live together! He said he had "NO idea" about me and who I was, and told me he was sorry for what she put me through!

See links below.....
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This will truly be my final entry and an update to make sure there is no confusion on this matter and MY EFFORT TO REMOVE THESE POSTS. I made the effort and failed and read below with the response from the people running the site and anyone wanting them removed must deal with them directly as I am done and did as I was asked to. Here is how this came about and read the response from the people at WHOSCAMMED YOU at the bottom.

To try to suppress this information, the subject of these posts had a temp 12 month restraining order served against me as was the practice with the previous man before myself to keep me from telling others the truth. The order only mentioned that I had given this information out to her family and people at the strip club where she worked and that I had threatened to do myself in and NEVER harm anyone else. All things I clearly posted here as the truth. No talk of any threats against her or anyone else as that was never the point or intent. Only justice and a legacy and being outed and being able to tell my story was the point and to save the next stupid man that believes her.

I went to court on Monday April 4, 2011 to be a respondent and was able to tell my side of the story to a large public crowd. I was very surprised that the subject of these posts also showed up on a Monday all the way from Orlando to tell her side. The story she told was amazing of only wanting friendship and getting sexual pressure from me and dominating all her time in the club. After two years? Seriously? Wording Just like the fake posts on here. You all read the truth and see the pictures and the cards from her to know better. Even using a false address in GA on the paperwork that I pointed out to the judge and even showed the address and name of the person that lived there! She did tell the judge how I did so much good for her family and how she made the mistake of letting herself get too close to me. Very true as I said the same on these posts and was nice to hear some positive and some truth from her.

I was very nervous as I did not expect to have to get into so much detail but clearly able to prove my side with text messages of “loving me” and that “what we had was real” and the email from her husband apologizing to me for what she did to me. The judge agreed that there was "some kind of relationship" here and was part of the document in how the order was handed out. The truth was heard but unfortunately in the end the judge decided in her favor and mainly because of these posts as that and one text message was her only evidence. The posts were “affecting her livelihood” as an “adult entertainer” as the subject of these posts told the judge. That’s all fine as I made it clear that I had moved on and hoped to never see or hear from her again. It was not pleasant at all to have to be in the same room with her or even stand next to her as I listened and then told my side. I made it a point to not even give her the courtesy of looking at her at all the entire time.

Even though there was NO MENTION in the actual order to remove these posts I was asked by an aid upon leaving to make my "best effort" to have them ALL removed. I did not like the idea of these posts going away but out of respect for the court I made an effort and was unsuccessful.

Here is the reply from the people who run this site and let it be noted that I IMMEDIATELY MADE THE EFFORT asked of me and was denied and here is the reply. I am done with all this “Jerry Springer Drama” and let the chips fall where it may about the nature of our relationship over two years as the truth is all here and as the bible verse says. You will reap what you sow. These posts will be part of the reaping of what was sown against me and two other men before me the past 2 years with me and 3 years with them and hope these posts save some poor soul in the future what we all went through.

Cheers and see below......
Info to me
April 4, 2011 8:56 PM
It is our company policy to not remove any posts from our website. Our site is merely a forum where people can post their alleged scams and the people who are the subject of those posts can tell their side of the story in order to set the record straight.
WSY is neither in the business nor has the capacity to take sides regarding who WSY believes is correct.

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